Texting, calling, voice notes, group chats: Humans’ relationship to the phone is constantly evolving.
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Gathering with family can be a chance to observe up close how multiple generations live their lives. One fascinating instance I’ve been thinking about lately: the way people interact with their phones. Home for the holidays, one might’ve encountered the avid texters, the old-fashioned phone talkers (those can exist across generations), the group-chat fiends, the brave (or perhaps annoying) voice-note senders.
Each person’s relationship with their phone is different, of course—a murky combination of age, preference, and environment, among other things. Today’s newsletter rounds up some of our writers’ analysis on ever-evolving modes of phone communication, from those that grate on us to those that connect us.
On Talking
Maybe Don’t Send That Voice Note
By Jacob Sweet
The audio messages can encourage selfishness—unless you use them gracefully.
Talk to People on the Telephone
By Amanda Mull
It’s time to start calling your friends again.
Group-Chat Culture Is Out of Control
By Faith Hill
The most social social media these days is … texting. And it’s gotten overwhelming.
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P.S.
My colleague Charlie Warzel wrote this week about the unexpected role his iPhone played after the loss of his dog, Peggy. His lovely essay opens the door to another mode of relating with our phones: using them to help us grieve.
— Isabel